Such a Sorry blogger

Okay, I keep checking everyones blog( which I love to doing), and they all have blogger friends, and I can't figure out how to add my blogger friends to my blog arghhhh...I've searched and looked and I'm either blind or dumb, or both...well at least that's how I feel right now, cuz I'm so frustrated arghhhh!!! just call sucky blogger right now LOL!! so if you read this please help a blind sucky blogger!!